I have been snappy, irritable and more than a little antsy this last month or two. Some soul-searching revealed that I was - gasp! - Bored. Capital B and all. It appears, finally, that my honeymoon with stay-at-home-motherhood is reaching it's end. It's been four and a half years and now I cannot stomach not being a home anymore. In fact, I have been looking for work ever since my results came out in August. I've met a lot of people, spoken to and emailed many more, trawled any website that said "Flexible", "work-from-home", "part-time". Aware that the area I want to operate in is quite narrow, I wasn't getting my hopes up. As I expected, there are plenty of flexi jobs for those in the technology and accounting space (the usage of the word "plenty" is relative to when I last checked - 4 years ago!), lesser for those in other areas.
I know from long experience (mine as well as that of my own home-grown expert in job-searches - my husband) that job-hunting for that elusive perfect job can be a long, time-consuming and frustrating process. When you want something that's flexible, interesting, challenging, and in the specific domain that you are interested in - one needs to be patient. And lucky.
I stumbled on to a social enterprise founded by a lady who is also an alumnus of the same b-school. It works in the non-farm rural sector, building capacities/skills in micro-enterprises, providing marketing support, new product development support, and facilitating financial assistance. I met this lady and things worked out. My role is pretty neat. I get to work 30 hours a week, telecommute as much as I can and the rest of the time I'm either out in the field or at the office which is a 1/2 hour Metro ride away in Delhi (again, blessing the boon that is the Metro for giving people a cushy way to beat the horrible traffic and travel long distances). I'm going to be tramping over some old ground, and breaking some new, and that's comforting and exciting. The 30 hours a week is going to be stretchable, since it's not as though I can clock in at 9 and log off at 3. I may be working more or less constantly through the day, stepping carefully around kid's schedules and activities.
Fortunately for me, Y's school just bought over a well-known Gurgaon daycare, stamped their (school) brand on them and the daycare is now installed and operational on the 1st floor of Y's school building. I've registered her for a 2-hour program with them, starting from January 1st week which is when school reopens after the Xmas break. She heads up one floor after school is over, eats lunch at the daycare, and they look after her until 2.30 pm when she gets onto the school transport to return home. Ads and she will probably return home around the same time every afternoon and hopefully I should have wound up work by that time.
Fingers crossed! Wish me luck!
Fortunately for me, Y's school just bought over a well-known Gurgaon daycare, stamped their (school) brand on them and the daycare is now installed and operational on the 1st floor of Y's school building. I've registered her for a 2-hour program with them, starting from January 1st week which is when school reopens after the Xmas break. She heads up one floor after school is over, eats lunch at the daycare, and they look after her until 2.30 pm when she gets onto the school transport to return home. Ads and she will probably return home around the same time every afternoon and hopefully I should have wound up work by that time.
Fingers crossed! Wish me luck!
Congratulations on your new job..sounds really neat..the schedule and timing apt..
ReplyDeleteWish you the best of luck!
err...does this mean, we will get to see less of you???
pls do keep blogging...
Congrats and all the best
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!!! So so so happy for you! I need one like this myself - losing sleep the last few weeks over this. Boredom is not so much a reason for me because KG is home except for three half days a week. Let me not go on about myself - am so happy for you! Good luck with everything! Hope it all works out smoothly!
ReplyDeleteall the best! vish and i were discussing the other day u'd do nothing else but great!
ReplyDelete@uma, err....I definitely hope not...I hope I will blog just as much :) Incidentally my job also has a blogging component to it so I am happy to keep doing some writing.
ReplyDelete@kshama, thanks!
ReplyDelete@noon: Thanks. I know the feeling :( I'll weigh in with cribs I am sure once the work really starts - grass is always greener on the other side, eh? :)
ReplyDelete@Yuvika: Thats so sweet :) Thank you!
ReplyDeleteWonderful and all the very best. Here wishing you luck and all of that. Glad you get to work around Ads and T schedules.
ReplyDeleteThought this the best time to delurk. Good luck with your new job.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you! :)
ReplyDeleteIt is really great that you could find something that clicked for you in all the ways that matter - timings, job type, distance from your house and regarding taking care of your child.
@all: Thanks for the wishes :) Hope it does work out!
ReplyDeleteWow that's so great that you found a good fit - All the very best and echoing Uma's sentiments that I hope we'll still see a lot of you around here :).
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Aparna....wishing you great luck.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds perfect. Hope it works out fine. Welcome back to the work world!
ReplyDeleteAll the best Aparna. You will do just fine. The initial few days may seem impossible but I know you will sail through. Life is best for a woman only when she knows she can do more than she thinks she can do and gives her best to all at home and work. It matters and I'm glad you putting all your talents to work! :)
ReplyDelete@Dheepa: Thanks for the encouraging words! :)
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